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Bondage

Posted on: October 7, 2008

Do you look at this picture and feel your knees go weak and your heart start to race ?

kitten does because this is something she enjoys a lot, the feeling of being bound and helpless, there for His pleasure, to be used how and when He wishes and how He wishes, all these and many more feelings she loves, and that is something that is a part of her  BUT and here’s the thing, if you look through the internet you will find hundreds if not thousands of pictures like this, some mlder some more extreme and that is wonderful if you remember two things,

#1 Most of the pictures printed are ‘staged’, they are done by professionals and under strict supervision, they are not the normal scene play bondage, they are done and posed for the purpose of the photo only

#2 The subs/slaves in them are CONSENTING and have agreed to all that is taking place, it is not against their will but with their permission and the express desire to be bound and tied for pleasure.

Bondage is not something for everyone, kitten knows it is something she loves but she also knows that there has to be a lot of trust and faith in your partner before you can really clear your mind and enjoy all the pleasures that being helpless and at the mercy of another can bring, start of small and work your way to more and more if it is something that you are interested in, the pleasures it can bring are untold and worth it.

For more pictures of great bondage please take alook here… www.dennisnajee.wordpress.com

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7 Responses to "Bondage"

because kitten introduced me and hubby to this lifestyle we have found a new meaning to intimacy.I know we are considered mild in our bondage, but it is what we are comfortable with. Thank you kitten,you were a wonderful role model for us.

redbud.

* smiling* red you and ice are and always will be very special to this kitten, and it matters not what degree of bondage you enjoy, the key word is enjoy and thats what make this life special, everyone can enjoy it as much as they wish to

>^..^<

xxx

Oh Kitten, those pictures make my heart go pitter-pat! lol

* smiling* kitten loves the pitter patter of the crop on her ass !!!

what am i commenting about?

opps sorry! wrong site!! lol

here’s nothing like the sensation of being completely bound whilst other things are happening to you. There are lots of different materials you can use to tie each other up: metal, rope, canvas, rubber, plastic wrap, bandages, straps and webbing – but if you’re new to bondage the cheapest, easiest and most flexible material to use is rope. Here’s some advice for basic rope bondage (the Top is the one doing the tying up).
The best way to learn bondage is in person from someone who knows what they are doing. Ask at your local leatherbar if any local clubs or organisations run courses in bondage for beginners.
Blindfolding the sub at the start of the scene means that he can’t see if you’re making any mistakes or changing your mind as you go along. That gives the Top more confidence and helps the sub to relax and enjoy the experience.
Soft cotton rope is easier to knot and less likely to cause friction burns than rope with a plastic coating or rough surface. I recommend rope that’s 6-10 mm diameter for most bondage and thinner for cock and ball bondage.
Always be careful when pulling rope that you don’t cause a burn on your sub’s skin or flick the end of the rope into his eyes.
Consider how you would get the sub out of the rope bondage quickly in an emergency. A good rope bondage Top will own a pair of bandage scissors to cut ropes quickly and safely. You can buy bandage scissors from a medical supply shop or larger pharmacies.
Check the sub’s hands and feet regularly during the scene to make sure they are still warm. If the hands or feet are cold then loosen the appropriate ropes until his circulation improves. Don’t rely on the sub to tell you that his hands or feet have gone numb – he might not be able to tell.
Don’t tie rope around the sub’s neck, behind his knees or elbow joints, inside his wrists or any other pressure points. Apart from restricting breathing or circulation you could also cause nerve damage. Leather wrist cuffs are a good investment as you can attach the sub’s wrists to a variety of locations quickly and easily without cutting off his circulation.
Check that the sub’s breathing is unimpaired throughout the scene, especially if he is hog-tied or lying face down.
Each rope you add during a bondage scene will change the tension in the other ropes, so make sure you go back and check your earlier work at regular intervals to see that they are just tight enough to restrict movement without causing injury.
Think ahead to the final position you’d like the sub to be in. It’s no good tying him firmly into a position where you can’t reach the parts you want to play with!
Consider the sub’s stability. If he’s standing up and you tie his hands behind his back and then tie his ankles together, it won’t take much for him to fall over and be unable to break his fall – although he may break his nose or wrists. If the sub is standing it’s a good idea to tie his feet apart rather than together, and make sure he has some support at his arms or from ropes crossing him in front and behind.
Don’t tie the ends of ropes within reach of your sub’s teeth or fingers. Otherwise, while your back is turned he’ll be concentrating on undoing your handiwork. Use the middle of a rope to attach your sub’s wrist to a pole, hook or headboard – then take the ends of the rope somewhere else and tie them off out of reach.
You don’t have to buy expensive rope from a fetish shop. In London you can buy 10m of black cotton rope from a sex shop for £20 UK. A shipping chandler sells 10m of unbleached white cotton rope for £7 UK. However, in a magic shop you can buy 10m of brightly coloured soft cotton rope for just £3.50 UK. Before you say that black rope looks more sexy – think how hard it is to tie a knot in black rope in a dimly lit playroom. Also, if the sub is already blindfolded it won’t matter what colour the rope is.
It’s a good idea to wrap coloured sticky tape around the ends of the ropes to stop them from fraying. You can use different coloured tape as a code for different lengths of rope.
If you don’t have any suitable places to tie your sub to, buy some large hooks from a DIY store. You can screw the hooks into door frames or a wooden bed base to provide anchor points. You can always unscrew the hooks afterwards if you don’t want other people to see them.

Anna

bondage and toy shop uk

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