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Master is Poly

Posted on: July 12, 2008

kittens Master is a poly Master and this confuses many and some cannot understand what or why He is and what this involves,, so for help kitten has added definitions and examples

Polyamory (from Greek πολυ [poly, meaning many or several] and Latin amor [literally “love”]) is the desire, practice, or acceptance of having more than one loving, intimate relationship at a time with the full knowledge and consentof everyone involved. Polyamorous perspectives differ from monogamous perspectives, in that they reflect one or more partner’s wish(es) to have further meaningful relationships and to accommodate these alongside their existing relationships.

Polyamorous relationships, in practice, are highly varied and individualized. Ideally they are built upon values of trust, loyalty, negotiation, and compersion, as well as rejection of jealousy, possessiveness, and restrictive cultural standards] Such relationships are often more fluid than the traditional “dating and marriage” model of long-term relationships, and the participants in a polyamorous relationship may not have preconceptions as to duration.

Sex is not necessarily a primary focus in polyamorous relationships. Polyamorous relationships commonly consist of groups of more than two people seeking to build a long-term future together on mutually agreeable grounds, with sex as only one aspect of their relationship.

A true poly is were everyone involved not only knows about each other, but EVERYONE is getting emotional attachment, the interactions between the ‘ family’ help to build the bond that makes the relationship, it is a bond that holds the group together and lends support and help to each one within the family. But, as everything else, you have to make sure everyone is getting the emotional cuddling that is needed, everyone needs to be the focus of their Master for a time period, this is their time to explain, talk and generally interactThere are many ‘suggsted values’ that people live by when they are poly and as these are only suggestions then they do not have to be adhered to but are in a way a guide for others to see what and how this type of relationship can and does work, the key thing in any poly relationship is that ALL involved need to know about everyone, this stops the feeling of being left to the side and not important enough to be told, A true Master will involve His slaves with any new ones He is talking to, this helps them all form a bond and no secrets are kept, as it is secrets that destroy the trust and trust is at the core of any type of relationship and is something that needs to be maintained at all costs, with out trust then fears, doubts and a million other emotions come into play.

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